Michael Vallejo, LCSW
Michael received a Master's Degree in Social Work from Portland State University in 2010. He is a licensed as a Clinical Social Worker in Colorado and Oregon. He values a non-judgmental and collaborative approach to therapy. Michael utilize a strengths-based, goal-oriented approach, which includes skill-building, and strategies from solution-focused therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and various dialectical behavior therapy skills.
Prior to starting his private practice in 2014, he worked in a residential treatment center for children and teens, at a shelter for at-risk youth, and as a child and family therapist in a community-based mental health agency. He specialize in working with boys with behavioral, emotional, and /or school difficulties. Michael's primary age of focus is 10-18 years old.
Specialties: Working with boys, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, Mood difficulties, Behavioral difficulties, and School related concerns.
Latest Articles by Michael Vallejo, LCSW
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Kid Scared of the Dark? Why It Happens and How to Help Them Feel Safe
Discover why kids feel scared in the dark and explore reassuring bedtime strategies that build confidence, comfort, and better sleep.
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25 Books for Kids With Anxiety, Worry, and Fear
Discover 25 books organized by different types of anxiety, worry, and fear that children may experience.
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10 Printable Mental Health Wall Art Designs
Here are 10 printable mental health wall art resources you can use at home, in a classroom, or in a counseling or therapy office.
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Emotional Resilience is a Skill Children Can Develop – Here’s How to Help Them Build It
Understanding how to build resilience in children improves their problem-solving skills, relationships, and academic performance. Discover helpful tips in our article.
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Common Stressors Faced by Teenagers and How to Help Them Cope
Learn the common stressors for teens, from school pressure to social challenges, and explore supportive strategies that can make a real difference.
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How to Talk to Your Child About Depression and Make Them Feel Supported
Learning how to talk to your child about depression requires empathy, active listening, and deep understanding. Read to find helpful discussion tips.
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8 Tips to Prepare Kids with ADHD for Back to School
Make back to school less stressful for kids with ADHD with 8 simple strategies to support focus, planning, and a confident first day.
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Understanding Primary and Secondary Emotions for Better Emotional Awareness
Learn the difference between primary and secondary emotions, why they matter, and how to respond with greater clarity and self-awareness.
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11 Activities That Help Kids Develop Healthy Coping Skills
Discover 11 coping skills activities for kids that help them build healthy ways to handle big feelings.
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10 Tips for Raising Grateful Children
Learn 10 encouraging ways to raise grateful children, teach lasting gratitude, and make appreciation part of everyday family life.
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Anger as a Secondary Emotion
Understanding anger as a secondary emotion helps us address our underlying needs and core problems. Learn healthy ways to express anger in our article.
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10 Hands-On Anger Management Activities for Kids
Anger can be difficult for children to process. Discover anger management activities for kids to help them express their feelings.
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Choice Paralysis in ADHD
Choice paralysis is common in adolescents with ADHD. Learn how it manifests and how you can adequately support your child.
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Is Your Child Stressed Out? Signs to Look For and How to Help
Learn how to spot child stress early, recognize common warning signs, and use practical, supportive ways to help your child cope.
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9 Ways to Help Your Child Develop Emotional Intelligence
Building emotional intelligence in kids can help them handle challenges and connect with others. Learn these 9 tips.
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How Emotion Coaching Helps Kids Handle Big Feelings
Emotion coaching is the practice of helping children cope with big feelings. Through emotion coaching, we can become good role models for emotion regulation.
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100 Fun Activities for Kids That Get Them Off Their Screens
Looking for ways to get your child to appreciate the physical world? Discover 100 fun screen-free activities for kids!
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Building Frustration Tolerance: Helping Kids Handle Their Frustration
Knowing how to build frustration tolerance in kids can make them better problem-solvers in challenging situations. Discover practical tips in our article.
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Understanding Social Withdrawal in Children
Social withdrawal in children can be the result of depression, temperament, and many other reasons. Learn how to support a child who is pulling away from others.
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My Child Doesn’t Put Effort Into Anything: What Can I Do?
Learn why your child may resist effort and how to respond with supportive strategies that encourage persistence, growth, and self-belief.
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Tiny Humans, Big Emotions: Helping Kids Learn to Handle Big Feelings
Here are simple ways to support kids through big emotions, from naming feelings to calming down and building lifelong emotional skills.
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120 Character Building Activities for Kids That Make Learning Values Fun
Help kids practice important values with these character building activities. You’ll find games, crafts, challenges, and more.
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School Anxiety and Refusal in Children – What Parents Can Do
School anxiety can significantly affect a child’s academic and social life. Learn how to help your child overcome school refusal.
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7 Tips to Reduce Your Kids’ Screen Time
Setting limits on screen time for kids can ensure they grow mentally, emotionally, and physically. Learn how much screen time kids should have.
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Agoraphobia in Children
Learn about agoraphobia in children, its symptoms, causes, and effective treatment options to help your child overcome anxiety and thrive.
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Healthy Coping Skills for Kids and Teens
Coping skills for kids and teens can help them manage anger, anxiety, sadness, frustration, and everyday stress. Learn more in this guide.
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Is It OCD or Anxiety? How to Tell the Difference
Differentiating between OCD vs. anxiety is important for receiving the appropriate treatment. Learn the key differences.
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My Child Can’t Focus: Is it ADHD or Anxiety?
ADHD and anxiety can look very similar, but the two conditions are unique. Learn how to differentiate them and support your child in the best way.
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Understanding Executive Dysfunction in ADHD
Learn how executive dysfunction can affect people with ADHD. Read this article to understand its symptoms and management strategies.
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Printable Healthy Habits Worksheets and Handouts for Kids
Explore healthy habits worksheets and handouts that can help children develop healthy habits at home, school, or in therapy.
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Video Games Can Be Good for Kids, But Balance and Game Choice Matter
Discover how video games can benefit children, plus practical tips for choosing quality games, managing screen time, and keeping play balanced.
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Does My Child Have Agoraphobia or Social Anxiety?
Learn whether your child’s fears may signal agoraphobia or social anxiety, including symptoms, causes, and treatment options.
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My Teen Avoids Social Situations: Is It Avoidant Personality Disorder or Social Anxiety?
Is your teen avoiding friends and events? Learn how avoidant personality disorder differs from social anxiety and when to seek support.
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Highly Sensitive Children Traits and Parenting Tips
Wondering if your child is highly sensitive? Learn the traits, strengths, challenges, and ways to support a highly sensitive child.
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Is Your Child Anxious or Just Stressed? A Parent’s Guide
Learn how to tell childhood anxiety from everyday stress, spot warning signs, and help your child feel supported, safe, and understood.
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All or Nothing Thinking: Why Everything Can Feel Like “Success or Failure”
All or nothing thinking can make small setbacks feel like complete failures. Learn how to recognize this pattern and practice more balanced thinking.
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A Beginner’s Guide to Meditation for Teens
Meditation for teens is a science-backed practice that improves their mental health and well-being. Read our beginner’s guide for tips on how to get your teen started.
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Signs of Undiagnosed Autism in Teenagers
Understanding the symptoms of autism in teens can help improve social skills and manage sensory processing issues. Learn about diagnosis, treatment, and support.
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How to Parent a Defiant Teenager
Many teens will act out, but parenting a defiant teenager can be an emotional experience. Learn what defiance is and how to deal with it.
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13 Ways to Improve Your Low Self-Esteem and Build Lasting Confidence
Knowing how to improve your self-esteem can improve your relationships and success in life. Learn more here.
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Early Childhood Attachment Styles: Looking Beyond the Original Theory
Discover how early childhood attachment style research has evolved, from foundational theory to today’s nuanced perspectives.
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Explaining Death to a Child: Words to Say and Avoid
Not sure how to explain death to a child? Here’s how to talk about loss, answer common questions, and offer reassurance.
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Why Autism and Anxiety Commonly Co-Occur
Explore why autism and anxiety often co-occur, how symptoms overlap, and practical ways to recognize and support both conditions.
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Reactive Attachment Disorder in Children and Teens
Learn about reactive attachment disorder in children and teens, including symptoms, diagnosis, and effective treatment options for healthier relationships.
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How to Help a Child with Sensory Issues – A Guide for Parents
Discover our practical guide for parents to support a child with sensory issues. Learn tips and strategies to help your child and family thrive.
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Autism Meltdown: A Parent’s Guide to Recognizing and Responding
Understand what an autism meltdown is and find helpful strategies to respond with care. Empower your autism parenting journey today.
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11 Signs Your Child Might Be Developing Narcissistic Traits
Narcissism in children may look like self-centeredness, but it often points to deeper psychological issues. Learn to spot narcissistic traits in your child.
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Could My Toddler Have ADHD? Early Signs Parents Shouldn't Ignore
Wondering if your toddler could have ADHD? Explore the potential early signs and what you can do to support your toddler.
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Depression vs Sadness: Key Differences
Confused about depression and sadness? Understand the differences, signs, and when to seek help in this detailed guide for your well-being
