
Michael Vallejo, LCSW
Michael received a Master's Degree in Social Work from Portland State University in 2010. He is a licensed as a Clinical Social Worker in Colorado and Oregon. He values a non-judgmental and collaborative approach to therapy. Michael utilize a strengths-based, goal-oriented approach, which includes skill-building, and strategies from solution-focused therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and various dialectical behavior therapy skills.
Prior to starting his private practice in 2014, he worked in a residential treatment center for children and teens, at a shelter for at-risk youth, and as a child and family therapist in a community-based mental health agency. He specialize in working with boys with behavioral, emotional, and /or school difficulties. Michael's primary age of focus is 10-18 years old.
Specialties: Working with boys, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, Mood difficulties, Behavioral difficulties, and School related concerns.
Latest Articles by Michael Vallejo, LCSW
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Social Anxiety in Teens: Signs, Causes, and How to Help
Social anxiety in teens can influence how they form and handle interpersonal relationships. Learn how to help your teen overcome social anxiety.
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Research on Sleep Deprivation and Teen Mental Health
Research links poor teen sleep with mental health risks. Here are the findings from Sleep Science and Practice, and tips for parents.
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Intermittent Explosive Disorder in Children: Signs, Causes, and How to Help
Intermittent explosive disorder in children manifests as physical and verbal violence. Here’s how you can support your child in managing their symptoms.
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Research on How Eating Habits Affect Teen Mental Health
How does food affect teen mental health? Research shows that mealtime routines matter as much as food choices. Read more here.
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20 ADHD Games and Activities for Kids That Build Focus and Fun
ADHD games and activities for kids are a great way to improve their focus, release pent-up energy, and enhance social skills. Here are 20 options you should know.
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The Best Children’s Books About Friendship
Explore the best children’s books about friendship to help kids build empathy, kindness, and relationship skills from toddlerhood to preteens.
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Research on Physical Activity and Mental Health in Kids and Teens
A new study finds that physical activity improves mental health in children and teens. We’ll break down the key results and share tips to encourage movement.
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10 Best Books About Emotion for Kids
Young children may need help expressing their feelings. Discover the best books about emotion for kids to aid in their learning process.
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Research on Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy for Children with Anxiety
Learn about a study showing how MBCT-C outperforms group therapy in lowering anxiety among children and find easy strategies parents can use at home.
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Social Media Addiction in Teens: A Growing Mental Health Concern
Understand the signs and consequences of social media addiction in teens and get expert advice to support their mental health and well-being.
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Why Do Kids Lie and What Can Parents Do?
Every parent wants to know: why do kids lie? Learn the reasons behind lying, how to address them, and how to use them as teaching opportunities.
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Research on How Kids and Teens Cope with Stress and Difficult Feelings
A study asked 10- to 14-year-olds how they deal with stress. Here’s what researchers found, what it means for parents and caregivers.
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20 Best Open-Ended Toys That Spark Imagination and Learning
Unlock your child’s creativity with 20 open-ended toys that inspire pretend play and learning.
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Research on the Frontal Lobe and Children’s Mental Health
What does the frontal lobe do, and how does it affect kids’ behavior, language, and emotions? This research article covers five regions of the frontal lobe.
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Tattling vs. Telling: What’s the Difference and Why It Matters
Understanding the difference between tattling and telling helps children become better problem-solvers. Learn more in this article.
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How to Help Your Child with Social Anxiety at School
Child therapist, Michael Vallejo, describes simple tips to support a child with social anxiety at school. Explore coping strategies that help your child manage symptoms and build confidence.
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How to Help Kids Develop Flexible Thinking
Support your child's growth by encouraging flexible thinking. Learn techniques and activities that can boost adaptability and resilience in kids.
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Research on Screen Time and Myopia in Kids and Teens
A new study links increased screen time to higher myopia risk in young people. Learn which devices are most concerning and what parents can do.
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Toddler Behavior Issues: What’s Normal and When to Worry
Noticing toddler behavior issues in your child? Learn what behaviors are normal and what might require professional intervention and support.
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Research on the Impact of Art Therapy on Pediatric Patients
A study of 12 hospitalized children shows art therapy reduces emotional distress and helps kids feel like artists, not patients. Learn more here.
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Toddler Tantrums and How to Deal with Them
Learning how to deal with toddler tantrums can be tough. Here’s how to support your child when they experience big emotions.
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Physical Activity and Mental Health for Kids: Tips for Parents
Research has shown a connection between physical activity and mental health for kids. Learn 7 ways to encourage your child to be more active.
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How is the ADHD Brain Different from the Normal Brain?
The ADHD brain vs. the normal brain functions differently and can cause learning challenges. Learn how the ADHD brain works so you can support it.
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Research on How Preschool and Parental Involvement Boost Student Learning
Children who attend preschool and have engaged parents perform better in school, especially in math, according to a study. Find out more.
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Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy employs mindfulness to reduce stress and depression. Learn how it works.
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Research on How Sports Help Kids’ Self-Esteem and Emotional Health
Here’s how playing sports boosts kids’ emotional health, based on a study of 4,000 children in the Generation R project.
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10 Best Children's Books About Neurodiversity
Find 10 of the best children’s books about neurodiversity that promote empathy and inclusion.
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Teaching Your Child to Deal with Failure
Teaching your child to deal with failure can help build their self-esteem and resilience for the future. Learn 4 simple tips from a child therapist.
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Research on Involving Children with Disabilities in Goal Setting
A study shows that involving kids with disabilities in goal setting is key, but professionals need more guidance and resources. Learn more here.
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What is the Anger Stage of Grief?
The anger stage of grief may be difficult to navigate, but with proper support, you can move past it. Read on to learn more about this stage of grief.
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Research on Students’ Willingness to Ask for Help in School
A study shows how loneliness, confidence, and social support can influence help-seeking behaviors among students.
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10 Self-Regulation Strategies for Kids to Help Them Stay Calm and Focused
Self-regulation strategies for kids can make them more resilient, emotionally intelligent, and better problem-solvers. Learn how to help your child develop self-regulation skills.
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Self-Validation for Kids: 4 Tips to Support Your Child
Self-validation can help improve a child’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Learn 4 simple strategies to support your child with self-validation.
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10 Emotional Regulation Activities for Kids to Manage Big Feelings
Discover fun and effective emotional regulation activities for kids to express and manage big feelings.
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Research on Hope and Its Role in Helping Kids Make Good Decisions
Hope can protect kids from risky behaviors. Learn what research says and how to build hope.
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Why Sibling Fighting Happens and How to Handle It
Siblings fighting can cause psychological damage when things get out of hand. Learn why siblings fight and what you can do to support them.
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Research on Joint Attention: Why Sharing Focus Matters
Curious about whether working together boosts performance and memory? Check out this research on joint attention.
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15 Calm Down Corner Printables for Home and Classroom Use
Discover 15 calm-down corner printables that can help kids manage big emotions at home or in the classroom.
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10 Printable Anxiety Worksheets for Kids
Use these anxiety worksheets to help kids handle anxiety, learn healthy coping tools, and express emotions.
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Research on Classroom Calming Corners for Emotional Regulation
A study found that classroom calming corners help students manage emotions during school transitions. Read the study and learn what it means for kids.
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Major Depressive Disorder in Children: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment
Major depressive disorder in children can negatively impact their relationships and daily life. Learn the ins and outs of MDD.
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Research on Emotional Granularity and Depression in Teens
Learn how emotional granularity relates to teen depression and anxiety, and why teaching them to name their emotions matters.
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ADHD vs Bipolar Disorder in Children
Differentiating between ADHD vs. bipolar disorder can put you in a better position to support your child. Learn their differences and treatments.
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10 Leadership Games and Activities for Kids
Here are leadership games and activities for kids that build confidence, teamwork, and communication.
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Research on the Benefits of Forgiveness for Adolescents
Can teaching forgiveness really help teens feel better? A new study shows how school-based forgiveness lessons improved students’ mental health.
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What Age Should Kids Get a Smartphone? A Parent's Guide
Wondering what age should your child get a smartphone? Learn the pros and cons of giving your child a smartphone and how to guide them in using it wisely.
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Research on ADHD Shows Teachers Predict It Better Than Parents
A large study finds that teachers are more accurate than parents at spotting ADHD in children. Learn what this means and how you can take action.
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Nurturing Twice-Exceptional Kids: A Parent’s Guide
Twice-exceptional kids are both gifted and face developmental challenges. Learn what twice-exceptionality entails and how you can support your child.
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The Physiological Sigh: Two Quick Breaths to Help You Feel Great
The physiological sigh can be a helpful tool for stress reduction and relaxation. Learn how it works and some tips for using it.