
Michael Vallejo, LCSW
Michael received a Master's Degree in Social Work from Portland State University in 2010. He is a licensed as a Clinical Social Worker in Colorado and Oregon. He values a non-judgmental and collaborative approach to therapy. Michael utilize a strengths-based, goal-oriented approach, which includes skill-building, and strategies from solution-focused therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and various dialectical behavior therapy skills.
Prior to starting his private practice in 2014, he worked in a residential treatment center for children and teens, at a shelter for at-risk youth, and as a child and family therapist in a community-based mental health agency. He specialize in working with boys with behavioral, emotional, and /or school difficulties. Michael's primary age of focus is 10-18 years old.
Specialties: Working with boys, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, Mood difficulties, Behavioral difficulties, and School related concerns.
Latest Articles by Michael Vallejo, LCSW
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The Impact of Social Media on Teen Self-Esteem: A Parent's Guide
Research shows that social media and teen self-esteem are interconnected. Learn strategies to help your child navigate the digital world.
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10 Best Children's Books About Self-Control (2025)
These books about self-control provide kids with valuable lessons on managing impulses, understanding emotions, and making thoughtful decisions.
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Research on Childhood Trauma and Affect on Frontal Gray Matter of Brain
A study reveals how childhood trauma impacts gray matter in the brain, particularly in the frontal lobe. You’ll also learn tips to support emotional healing.
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Play Therapy for Kids: Types, Benefits, and Techniques
Play therapy for kids can do wonders for managing trauma, depression, and anxiety. Learn how it works.
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Research on Parents’ Nurturing Behavior and Children’s DNA
Did you know that parental care influences a child’s genes and resilience? Explore the science of epigenetics in this research article.
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How to Help Your Child Grieve a Pet's Loss
Learning how to help a child grieve the loss of a pet is an excellent way to honor their memory. Here’s how to provide support as parents.
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We All Think Differently: Making Space for Neurodivergent Minds
Working with neurodiverse kids reminds us that we all think differently. This newsletter was written as a reminder for each of us to make space for different minds.
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15 Printable Anger Management Worksheet for Kids
Help kids manage emotions with these 15 printable anger management worksheets. They teach children about coping skills and self-regulation.
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Research on the Impact of Sleep on Child Behavior and Emotional Regulation
A study found that consistent sleep schedules help kids regulate emotions and make better choices. Learn more here.
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Emotional Dysregulation in ADHD
ADHD emotional dysregulation can make individuals feel like their emotions are out of control. Explore healthy coping mechanisms that work.
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Research on Social Media and Loneliness in Rural Youth
Social media use is linked to loneliness in rural youth. Learn tips promote healthy online habits and build meaningful offline connections.
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10 Tips to Support Your Children’s Mental Health
Supporting your children’s mental health keeps them stable, resilient, and confident. Learn how to support a child struggling with their mental health.
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How to Cope with Cyberbullying: Tips for Parents and Kids
Parents and children can learn how to cope with cyberbullying. It starts with awareness and understanding effective coping strategies.
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10 Best Books About Responsibility for Kids (2025)
Explore our list of books about responsibility for kids, perfect for teaching accountability, good habits, and essential life lessons through engaging stories.
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Research on Online Gaming, Loneliness, and Friendships in People with ASD
A study reveals that moderate online gaming may help individuals with ASD reduce loneliness and build friendships. Here are more insights from the study.
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What is the Circle of Concern?
The circle of concern helps us reflect on our worries but can slow our progress. Learn how to manage the circle of concern.
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Research on How Excessive Internet Use Affects Teen Loneliness
This study discusses how problematic internet use affects teen loneliness and how strong family communication and support from others can help.
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Dyspraxia in Children: Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment
Read this article to learn more about dyspraxia in children, as well as the ways to support them at home and in school.
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National Bullying Prevention Awareness Month: Thoughts for Parents
October is National Bullying Prevention Awareness Month. This is an excellent time for parents to talk to their child about bullying before it happens.
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School Refusal in Kids & Teens
School refusal in kids and teens can lead to emotional, social, and educational consequences. Learn how you can address school refusal promptly and effectively.
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Research on Reward Processing and Video Game Addiction in Teens
In this research study, learn how brain activity relates to gaming addiction in teens. We’ll also explore tips for promoting healthier habits.
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15 Printable Growth Mindset Posters for Kids & Teens
Growth mindset posters can encourage kids and teens to persevere through hard times. Discover 15 of our best growth mindset posters here.
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Research on Loneliness and Post-traumatic Stress in Adolescents
A study on loneliness and post-traumatic stress in teens shows how these issues are linked. Here’s what you need to know.
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Conduct Disorder in Children & Teenagers
Conduct disorder manifests as aggressive and antisocial behavior in children. Learn how you can help your child manage it.
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Feelings List: A Guide to Understanding Emotions
Providing your child with a comprehensive feelings list can help them better identify and understand their emotions.
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Research on the Thoughts, Experiences, Behaviors, and Attitudes of Teen Girls Across the U.S.
Here are key insights from The Girls’ Index 2023 study about the struggles U.S. girls face with confidence, stress, and social pressures.
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Teen Grief 101: How to Recognize and Help a Grieving Teen
Teen grief can be overwhelming and challenging to navigate. Learn how to help teenagers process their emotions and stressors.
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Research on How a Parent’s Death Affects Children’s School Performance
Here’s how losing a parent impacts a child’s education and ways to support grieving children with our resources.
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What is a Specific Learning Disability (SLD)?
Specific learning disabilities (SLD) can be challenging for children. Learn more about the characteristics and support for individuals with SLD.
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ADHD School Accommodations: Section 504 Plan Classroom Strategies
School accommodations can help students with ADHD thrive in the classroom. Talk with your child’s school counselor about Section 504 Plan classroom strategies for kids with ADHD.
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Is Dyslexia a Learning Disability?
Is dyslexia a learning disability? Read this article that addresses this question and explains how dyslexia affects learning.
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Research on the Role of Parents and the Home Environment on Emotional Regulation in Children
Learn how a calm home environment and positive parenting can help young children develop strong emotional regulation skills in this research study.
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What Is the Bargaining Stage of Grief?
The bargaining stage of grief is one of the common reactions to the loss or death of a loved one. Read this article that describes and explains this stage of grief.
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Research on Growth Mindset and School Burnout in Adolescents
Research shows the link between a growth mindset and lower school burnout in teens. Find out more about the study, plus tips caring adults can apply.
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Is Autism a Learning Disability?
Characterized by communication and social skills deficits, autism may present challenges in learning among children. Is autism a learning disability, though? Read this article that addresses this question and more.
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Why Hydration is Important: Hydration Tips for Kids
Hydration is a beneficial habit for both physical and mental health. Discover why hydration is important along with helpful hydration tips for kids.
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How to Explain Death to a Child
Knowing how to explain death to a child can help them learn to cope and move on. Discover helpful tips for discussing death with your child.
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Research on the Effectiveness of Web-Based Training for Parents of Children with PTSD
Read this study about how web-based training for parents can help children with PTSD, plus additional tips to heal at home.
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10 Best Children's Books About Disabilities (2025)
Check out the best children's books about disabilities in 2025. Promote understanding, empathy, and inclusivity with these inspiring stories.
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Research on Effectiveness of TF-CBT on Grief in Children
In this research article, you will learn how TF-CBT can reduce grief symptoms in children and find tips for helping kids heal after the loss of a loved one.
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What is the Circle of Influence?
The circle of influence encourages learned optimism and can help you feel more in control. Learn how it works.
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Understanding Maladaptive Perfectionism in Kids
Maladaptive perfectionism is one type of perfectionism that can lead to unhealthy habits, relationship issues, and mental health problems. Learn what it is and strategies to help a child overcome or avoid this type of perfectionism.
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7 Best Children's Books About Forgiveness
Discover the best children's books about forgiveness that teach kids the value of empathy, understanding, and making amends through captivating stories.
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Research on Cooperative Behavior and Its Impact on Relationships in Adolescents
Learn how trust, fairness, and social skills impact teen relationships, plus tips for parents to help guide their teens through cooperation.
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Learning Disabilities in Children
Learning disabilities in children can affect their comprehension and understanding. Here’s how you can provide support.
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Research on High School Students’ Acceptance of Minorities
Here is a new study that focuses on the impact of school activities and civics education on high school students’ tolerance toward minorities.
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What is a Nonverbal Learning Disorder (NVLD)?
Nonverbal learning disorders can impact how children process information. Learn how you can provide the appropriate support.
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Name It to Tame It: Identifying and Labeling Emotions for Kids
Naming emotions for kids is a helpful skill for their emotional development. The concept of “name it to tame it” encourages parents to support their child in identifying and labeling their emotions.
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Is ADHD a Learning Disability?
While ADHD is not a learning disability, it can affect how children learn. Discover how ADHD is linked to learning disabilities and how you can help your child.