
Michael Vallejo, LCSW
Michael received a Master's Degree in Social Work from Portland State University in 2010. He is a licensed as a Clinical Social Worker in Colorado and Oregon. He values a non-judgmental and collaborative approach to therapy. Michael utilize a strengths-based, goal-oriented approach, which includes skill-building, and strategies from solution-focused therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and various dialectical behavior therapy skills.
Prior to starting his private practice in 2014, he worked in a residential treatment center for children and teens, at a shelter for at-risk youth, and as a child and family therapist in a community-based mental health agency. He specialize in working with boys with behavioral, emotional, and /or school difficulties. Michael's primary age of focus is 10-18 years old.
Specialties: Working with boys, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, Mood difficulties, Behavioral difficulties, and School related concerns.
Latest Articles by Michael Vallejo, LCSW
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How to Be a Good Father: 12 Tips to Becoming a Great Dad
Learning how to be a good father can be tricky. After all, what does being a great dad mean in the first place? This article addresses this question and provides 12 tips on becoming a good dad.
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Research on Adventurous Play and Child Mental Health
Can adventurous play make kids happier and more resilient? A study reveals how small risks during playtime can support children’s mental health.
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Test Anxiety in Children
Test anxiety in children can hinder their ability to do well in exams. Learn what test anxiety is and how you can help your child manage it.
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How to Help Students with Test Anxiety
Discover how to help students with test anxiety with practical tips such as relaxation skills, test-taking strategies, and positive self-talk.
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Understanding How a Person with Bipolar Thinks
Understanding how a person with bipolar thinks can put you in a better position to support them. Learn how bipolar disorder affects thinking.
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Research on Mental Health in Black Adolescents
Learn key insights from a study on mental health challenges among Black teens, and how we can better support them.
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Stress in Teenagers
Stress in teenagers is normal, but it can also become crippling and overwhelming. Learn what causes stress in teens and how you can help.
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Research on Binge Eating in Teenagers
Here’s what research says about binge eating in teenagers, including key risk factors like stress and body image concerns.
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How to Help a Grieving Child
Learn how to help a grieving child by discussing their emotions and identifying when to seek professional help. Get the resources you need.
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How to Help Your Child Talk About Their Feelings
Learn how to help your child talk about their feelings with a therapeutic tool used by a child therapist.
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15 Art Therapy Activities for Teens
Verbal expression can sometimes be challenging for teenagers. Discover 15 art therapy activities for teens as part of their counseling.
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Research on Open-Ended Physical Games and Kids’ Attention and Social-Emotional Skills
Can open-ended games improve kids’ focus and social-emotional skills more than structured activities? A new study reveals surprising benefits.
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Disruptive Behavior Disorders in Children
Disruptive behavior disorders in children cause aggression, extreme rebellion, and hostility. Learn how to manage these challenging conditions.
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Research on How Parents’ Growth Mindsets Shape Their Children’s in Upper Elementary School
A study in Frontiers in Psychology shows how parents’ growth mindset influences their children’s beliefs about learning and improvement. Learn more here.
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10 Best Children's Books About Diversity
Discover the best children's books about diversity that celebrate culture, identity, and inclusion. These inspiring stories teach kids about acceptance, self-love, and the beauty of differences.
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How to Teach Gratitude to Kids
Learn helpful ways to teach gratitude to kids. Discover practical tips to encourage appreciation, positivity, and the attitude of gratitude.
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A List of Cognitive Distortions (and How to Overcome Them)
Negative thoughts can make us believe things that aren’t true. This list of cognitive distortions explains common thinking errors and how to challenge them.
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Research Shows That Household Chores Benefit Children’s Executive Function
Did you know that simple household chores can boost your child’s thinking skills? Research shows that certain tasks improve executive functioning.
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Toxic Stress in Children
Toxic stress in children can have a significant impact on their daily lives. Learn how to manage and treat it.
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Do Parents See It Clearly? Research on the Reality of Children’s School Engagement
Many parents believe their kids love school and learn a lot, but students report a different reality. Learn about the disengagement gap in this study.
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15 Printable Grief Worksheets and Handouts for Kids & Teens
Losing a loved one can make a person feel stuck and alone. Use our printable grief worksheets to help young people process their emotions.
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Teach Kids This Skill for Healthy Relationships
Learn how to teach kids this essential skill for healthy relationships. It encourages good communication, boundary setting, and conflict resolution.
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What Is Character Education?
Read this article to learn about this school-based effort to develop good character in the youth.
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Research on Teen Mental Health and Its Impact on the Economy
Research shows that teens with mental health struggles earn less and face more challenges as adults. However, investing in them may lead to a stronger economy.
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Cyberbullying on Social Media
Cyberbullying on social media can negatively impact children and teens. Learn the signs of cyberbullying and what you can do to help.
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Research on the Liking Gap in Children: Do They Worry About What Others Think?
Did you know that kids often underestimate how much their peers like them? Learn about the “liking gap,” why it happens, and how parents can help children.
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Helping Kids Deal with Bullies
Children who know how to deal with a bully feel more confident and are more resilient. Learn the signs of bullying and how you can help.
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The Impact of Social Media on Teen Self-Esteem: A Parent's Guide
Research shows that social media and teen self-esteem are interconnected. Learn strategies to help your child navigate the digital world.
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10 Best Children's Books About Self-Control (2025)
These books about self-control provide kids with valuable lessons on managing impulses, understanding emotions, and making thoughtful decisions.
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Research on Childhood Trauma and Affect on Frontal Gray Matter of Brain
A study reveals how childhood trauma impacts gray matter in the brain, particularly in the frontal lobe. You’ll also learn tips to support emotional healing.
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Play Therapy for Kids: Types, Benefits, and Techniques
Play therapy for kids can do wonders for managing trauma, depression, and anxiety. Learn how it works.
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Research on Parents’ Nurturing Behavior and Children’s DNA
Did you know that parental care influences a child’s genes and resilience? Explore the science of epigenetics in this research article.
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How to Help Your Child Grieve a Pet's Loss
Learning how to help a child grieve the loss of a pet is an excellent way to honor their memory. Here’s how to provide support as parents.
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We All Think Differently: Making Space for Neurodivergent Minds
Working with neurodiverse kids reminds us that we all think differently. This newsletter was written as a reminder for each of us to make space for different minds.
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15 Printable Anger Management Worksheet for Kids
Help kids manage emotions with these 15 printable anger management worksheets. They teach children about coping skills and self-regulation.
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Research on the Impact of Sleep on Child Behavior and Emotional Regulation
A study found that consistent sleep schedules help kids regulate emotions and make better choices. Learn more here.
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Emotional Dysregulation in ADHD
ADHD emotional dysregulation can make individuals feel like their emotions are out of control. Explore healthy coping mechanisms that work.
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Research on Social Media and Loneliness in Rural Youth
Social media use is linked to loneliness in rural youth. Learn tips promote healthy online habits and build meaningful offline connections.
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10 Tips to Support Your Children’s Mental Health
Supporting your children’s mental health keeps them stable, resilient, and confident. Learn how to support a child struggling with their mental health.
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How to Cope with Cyberbullying: Tips for Parents and Kids
Parents and children can learn how to cope with cyberbullying. It starts with awareness and understanding effective coping strategies.
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10 Best Books About Responsibility for Kids (2025)
Explore our list of books about responsibility for kids, perfect for teaching accountability, good habits, and essential life lessons through engaging stories.
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Research on Online Gaming, Loneliness, and Friendships in People with ASD
A study reveals that moderate online gaming may help individuals with ASD reduce loneliness and build friendships. Here are more insights from the study.
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What is the Circle of Concern?
The circle of concern helps us reflect on our worries but can slow our progress. Learn how to manage the circle of concern.
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Research on How Excessive Internet Use Affects Teen Loneliness
This study discusses how problematic internet use affects teen loneliness and how strong family communication and support from others can help.
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Dyspraxia in Children: Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment
Read this article to learn more about dyspraxia in children, as well as the ways to support them at home and in school.
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National Bullying Prevention Awareness Month: Thoughts for Parents
October is National Bullying Prevention Awareness Month. This is an excellent time for parents to talk to their child about bullying before it happens.
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School Refusal in Kids & Teens
School refusal in kids and teens can lead to emotional, social, and educational consequences. Learn how you can address school refusal promptly and effectively.
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Research on Reward Processing and Video Game Addiction in Teens
In this research study, learn how brain activity relates to gaming addiction in teens. We’ll also explore tips for promoting healthier habits.
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15 Printable Growth Mindset Posters for Kids & Teens
Growth mindset posters can encourage kids and teens to persevere through hard times. Discover 15 of our best growth mindset posters here.
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Research on Loneliness and Post-traumatic Stress in Adolescents
A study on loneliness and post-traumatic stress in teens shows how these issues are linked. Here’s what you need to know.