
Michael Vallejo, LCSW
Michael received a Master's Degree in Social Work from Portland State University in 2010. He is a licensed as a Clinical Social Worker in Colorado and Oregon. He values a non-judgmental and collaborative approach to therapy. Michael utilize a strengths-based, goal-oriented approach, which includes skill-building, and strategies from solution-focused therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and various dialectical behavior therapy skills.
Prior to starting his private practice in 2014, he worked in a residential treatment center for children and teens, at a shelter for at-risk youth, and as a child and family therapist in a community-based mental health agency. He specialize in working with boys with behavioral, emotional, and /or school difficulties. Michael's primary age of focus is 10-18 years old.
Specialties: Working with boys, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, Mood difficulties, Behavioral difficulties, and School related concerns.
Latest Articles by Michael Vallejo, LCSW
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Anger Thermometer: A Simple Tool for Understanding and Managing Anger
An anger thermometer provides a simple way to track and respond to feelings of frustration or disappointment. Learn how it works.
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Research on Neurofeedback Training for Kids with ADHD
Research shows neurofeedback boosts working memory and inhibitory control in kids with ADHD. Here’s what you need to know.
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Identifying Emotions (for Kids and Teens)
Identifying emotions is key for kids and teens. Use practical resources and tools to help young people understand their feelings more easily.
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Research on Study Breaks to Support Children’s Learning
Research shows that even a 5-minute break can help children focus and solve math problems more effectively. Learn more about the findings here.
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Helping Kids Build Executive Function Skills
Executive function skills for kids help them develop daily routines and succeed in school. Learn what you can do to help them develop these skills.
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Why Kids Have Emotional Outbursts — And How to Help Them Cope
Emotional outbursts can have a long-term negative impact on kids. Learn what causes them and what you can do to support your child.
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Research on Treating Childhood Anxiety with CBT
Study shows CBT calms overactive brain regions in anxious children. Read the full study to learn how these findings can inform treatment and support for kids.
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A Parent’s Guide to Virtual Reality Therapy for Children
Discover how virtual reality therapy can help children manage certain mental health conditions under the guidance of a licensed professional.
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Research on Mindfulness as a Tool for ADHD Management
Research reveals mindfulness as a helpful tool for managing ADHD symptoms in children and teens. Learn more here.
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Pretend Play for Children: A Guide for Parents
Pretend play allows children to unleash their imagination and exercise their creativity. Learn how you can support your child’s pretend play routine.
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How to Handle Disruptive Behavior in the Classroom
Knowing how to handle disruptive behavior in the classroom can make for a more conducive learning environment. Learn helpful strategies.
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Research on the Connection Between Childhood Trauma and Neurodevelopmental Disorders Across Generations
How does a parent’s trauma history affect their child with ADHD or autism? This study shares important findings.
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The Butterfly Hug: A Coping Skill for Anxiety and Trauma Symptoms
The butterfly hug is a simple self-soothing method that can help manage trauma and anxiety. Learn how it works and how to use it.
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Research on Problem-Solving as a Tool for Managing Depression in Teens
Study finds that problem-solving is most effective for treating depression in teens and young adults when used on its own. Learn more here.
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Social Anxiety in Teens: Signs, Causes, and How to Help
Social anxiety in teens can influence how they form and handle interpersonal relationships. Learn how to help your teen overcome social anxiety.
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Research on Sleep Deprivation and Teen Mental Health
Research links poor teen sleep with mental health risks. Here are the findings from Sleep Science and Practice, and tips for parents.
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Intermittent Explosive Disorder in Children: Signs, Causes, and How to Help
Intermittent explosive disorder in children manifests as physical and verbal violence. Here’s how you can support your child in managing their symptoms.
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Research on How Eating Habits Affect Teen Mental Health
How does food affect teen mental health? Research shows that mealtime routines matter as much as food choices. Read more here.
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20 ADHD Games and Activities for Kids That Build Focus and Fun
ADHD games and activities for kids are a great way to improve their focus, release pent-up energy, and enhance social skills. Here are 20 options you should know.
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The Best Children’s Books About Friendship
Explore the best children’s books about friendship to help kids build empathy, kindness, and relationship skills from toddlerhood to preteens.
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Research on Physical Activity and Mental Health in Kids and Teens
A new study finds that physical activity improves mental health in children and teens. We’ll break down the key results and share tips to encourage movement.
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10 Best Books About Emotion for Kids
Young children may need help expressing their feelings. Discover the best books about emotion for kids to aid in their learning process.
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Research on Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy for Children with Anxiety
Learn about a study showing how MBCT-C outperforms group therapy in lowering anxiety among children and find easy strategies parents can use at home.
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Social Media Addiction in Teens: A Growing Mental Health Concern
Understand the signs and consequences of social media addiction in teens and get expert advice to support their mental health and well-being.
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Why Do Kids Lie and What Can Parents Do?
Every parent wants to know: why do kids lie? Learn the reasons behind lying, how to address them, and how to use them as teaching opportunities.
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Research on How Kids and Teens Cope with Stress and Difficult Feelings
A study asked 10- to 14-year-olds how they deal with stress. Here’s what researchers found, what it means for parents and caregivers.
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20 Best Open-Ended Toys That Spark Imagination and Learning
Unlock your child’s creativity with 20 open-ended toys that inspire pretend play and learning.
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Research on the Frontal Lobe and Children’s Mental Health
What does the frontal lobe do, and how does it affect kids’ behavior, language, and emotions? This research article covers five regions of the frontal lobe.
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Tattling vs. Telling: What’s the Difference and Why It Matters
Understanding the difference between tattling and telling helps children become better problem-solvers. Learn more in this article.
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How to Help Your Child with Social Anxiety at School
Child therapist, Michael Vallejo, describes simple tips to support a child with social anxiety at school. Explore coping strategies that help your child manage symptoms and build confidence.
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How to Help Kids Develop Flexible Thinking
Support your child's growth by encouraging flexible thinking. Learn techniques and activities that can boost adaptability and resilience in kids.
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Research on Screen Time and Myopia in Kids and Teens
A new study links increased screen time to higher myopia risk in young people. Learn which devices are most concerning and what parents can do.
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Toddler Behavior Issues: What’s Normal and When to Worry
Noticing toddler behavior issues in your child? Learn what behaviors are normal and what might require professional intervention and support.
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Research on the Impact of Art Therapy on Pediatric Patients
A study of 12 hospitalized children shows art therapy reduces emotional distress and helps kids feel like artists, not patients. Learn more here.
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Toddler Tantrums and How to Deal with Them
Learning how to deal with toddler tantrums can be tough. Here’s how to support your child when they experience big emotions.
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Physical Activity and Mental Health for Kids: Tips for Parents
Research has shown a connection between physical activity and mental health for kids. Learn 7 ways to encourage your child to be more active.
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How is the ADHD Brain Different from the Normal Brain?
The ADHD brain vs. the normal brain functions differently and can cause learning challenges. Learn how the ADHD brain works so you can support it.
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Research on How Preschool and Parental Involvement Boost Student Learning
Children who attend preschool and have engaged parents perform better in school, especially in math, according to a study. Find out more.
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Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy employs mindfulness to reduce stress and depression. Learn how it works.
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Research on How Sports Help Kids’ Self-Esteem and Emotional Health
Here’s how playing sports boosts kids’ emotional health, based on a study of 4,000 children in the Generation R project.
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10 Best Children's Books About Neurodiversity
Find 10 of the best children’s books about neurodiversity that promote empathy and inclusion.
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Teaching Your Child to Deal with Failure
Teaching your child to deal with failure can help build their self-esteem and resilience for the future. Learn 4 simple tips from a child therapist.
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Research on Involving Children with Disabilities in Goal Setting
A study shows that involving kids with disabilities in goal setting is key, but professionals need more guidance and resources. Learn more here.
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What is the Anger Stage of Grief?
The anger stage of grief may be difficult to navigate, but with proper support, you can move past it. Read on to learn more about this stage of grief.
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Research on Students’ Willingness to Ask for Help in School
A study shows how loneliness, confidence, and social support can influence help-seeking behaviors among students.
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10 Self-Regulation Strategies for Kids to Help Them Stay Calm and Focused
Self-regulation strategies for kids can make them more resilient, emotionally intelligent, and better problem-solvers. Learn how to help your child develop self-regulation skills.
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Self-Validation for Kids: 4 Tips to Support Your Child
Self-validation can help improve a child’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Learn 4 simple strategies to support your child with self-validation.
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10 Emotional Regulation Activities for Kids to Manage Big Feelings
Discover fun and effective emotional regulation activities for kids to express and manage big feelings.
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Research on Hope and Its Role in Helping Kids Make Good Decisions
Hope can protect kids from risky behaviors. Learn what research says and how to build hope.