
Michael Vallejo, LCSW
Michael received a Master's Degree in Social Work from Portland State University in 2010. He is a licensed as a Clinical Social Worker in Colorado and Oregon. He values a non-judgmental and collaborative approach to therapy. Michael utilize a strengths-based, goal-oriented approach, which includes skill-building, and strategies from solution-focused therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and various dialectical behavior therapy skills.
Prior to starting his private practice in 2014, he worked in a residential treatment center for children and teens, at a shelter for at-risk youth, and as a child and family therapist in a community-based mental health agency. He specialize in working with boys with behavioral, emotional, and /or school difficulties. Michael's primary age of focus is 10-18 years old.
Specialties: Working with boys, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, Mood difficulties, Behavioral difficulties, and School related concerns.
Latest Articles by Michael Vallejo, LCSW
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How “I” Statements Help Kids Express Their Feelings the Kind Way
I” statements for kids help them express difficult feelings in a kind and constructive way. Learn how to use them and how they can benefit your child.
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Research on Later School Start Times to Boost Teens’ Well-Being
Here’s how later school start times improve teen sleep, mood, focus, and safety — plus how parents and teachers benefit too.
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Permissive Parenting and Its Effect on Childhood Behavior and Development
Discover the characteristics, setbacks, and examples of permissive parenting, plus tips on providing structure for healthy development.
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Star Breathing for Kids: A Simple Way to Teach Breathwork
Star breathing for kids is a fun and effective way to teach breathwork to your child. Learn the science behind breathwork to instill calmness in your child’s day.
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70 Best Quotes About Mental Health
Discover 70 powerful mental health quotes for support, reflection, and strength. Find words that remind you that you’re not alone in your journey.
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Research on Diaphragmatic Breathing for Stress Relief in Children and Teens
New research shows diaphragmatic breathing helps kids manage stress, anxiety, and depression. You’ll also learn simple ways for them to use it daily.
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Neurodiversity in Children
Neurodiversity in children can affect how they think and behave. Learn how to support self-awareness and confidence in your child’s growth.
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15 Fun Art Therapy Activities for Kids
Art therapy helps children express their thoughts while improving their well-being. Discover fun art therapy activities to try with kids.
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Pleasant Activities are Therapeutic for Children
Pleasant activities are therapeutic and can help kids relax and recharge. Learn about good examples, and how they can help children reduce stress and improve mental health.
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10 Best Children's Books About Autism
Discover the 10 best children's books about autism that promote understanding, inclusion, and empathy for neurotypical kids and children with autism.
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15 Anger Management Books for Kids in 2025
We've curated a list of 15 books to help kids deal with anger. These books provide diverse approaches to managing anger and are ideal resources for children of different ages.
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Panic Attacks in Children
Panic attacks in children result from severe reactions to triggers. Learn how to help your child navigate their fears.
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Spotting Signs of Mental Health Issues in Kids and Teens
Discover key signs of mental health issues in kids and teens. Learn how to spot warning signs, start important conversations, and find professional support when needed.
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10 Best Books About Honesty for Kids
Check out the best children's books about honesty that teach kids the value of truthfulness through fun stories and relatable characters.
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What Is Trauma-Focused CBT?
Trauma-focused CBT is distinct from the traditional CBT you may be familiar with. Read on to deepen your understanding of this therapy approach.
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Physical Bullying Among Kids
Physical bullying can leave both physical and emotional scars on your child. Learn how to spot signs of bullying and what you can do to prevent it.
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Tips to Help Kids Develop Executive Functioning Skills
Learn how to help kids develop executive functioning skills. Discover practical strategies for planning, organization, and self-control.
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Verbal Bullying in Kids
Verbal bullying among kids can lead to issues in self-esteem and mental health. Learn how you can support a child being verbally bullied.
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Research on Anxiety and Theory of Mind in Kids
Research shows that anxiety in kids can affect social interactions. Here’s how parents and caregivers can help.
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Leadership for Kids: Helping Children Develop Leadership Skills
Leadership for kids is the foundation of success. Learn what makes a good leader and how you can instill leadership qualities in your child.
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Research on How Family Size and Bonds Affect Happiness
Here’s how household size and close family bonds influence happiness, based on insights from the 2025 World Happiness Report.
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15 Printable Feelings Posters for Kids
Find 15 printable feelings posters for kids that support emotional awareness, emotional regulation, and learning at home or school.
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What is Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA)?
Applied behavior analysis has improved outcomes for children on the autism spectrum and other developmental disorders. Learn how it works.
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Research on the Mental Health of LGBTQ+ Young People
The Trevor Project’s 2024 National Survey reveals the challenges LGBTQ+ young people face. Read the full report to learn more about their experiences.
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Bipolar Disorder in Children
Bipolar disorder in children can cause major mood swings and emotional turmoil. Learn its effects and how you can help.
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Research on Awe and Prosociality in Children
Can awe make children more generous? A study explored how experiencing awe, through inspiring videos, affected kids’ willingness to help others.
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Research on Early Chatter and How It Shapes a Child’s Future
Research shows that early conversations strengthen learning, problem-solving, and relationships. Learn more in this article.
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How to Be a Good Father: 12 Tips to Becoming a Great Dad
Learning how to be a good father can be tricky. After all, what does being a great dad mean in the first place? This article addresses this question and provides 12 tips on becoming a good dad.
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Research on Adventurous Play and Child Mental Health
Can adventurous play make kids happier and more resilient? A study reveals how small risks during playtime can support children’s mental health.
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Test Anxiety in Children
Test anxiety in children can hinder their ability to do well in exams. Learn what test anxiety is and how you can help your child manage it.
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How to Help Students with Test Anxiety
Discover how to help students with test anxiety with practical tips such as relaxation skills, test-taking strategies, and positive self-talk.
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Understanding How a Person with Bipolar Thinks
Understanding how a person with bipolar thinks can put you in a better position to support them. Learn how bipolar disorder affects thinking.
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Research on Mental Health in Black Adolescents
Learn key insights from a study on mental health challenges among Black teens, and how we can better support them.
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Stress in Teenagers
Stress in teenagers is normal, but it can also become crippling and overwhelming. Learn what causes stress in teens and how you can help.
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Research on Binge Eating in Teenagers
Here’s what research says about binge eating in teenagers, including key risk factors like stress and body image concerns.
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How to Help a Grieving Child
Learn how to help a grieving child by discussing their emotions and identifying when to seek professional help. Get the resources you need.
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How to Help Your Child Talk About Their Feelings
Learn how to help your child talk about their feelings with a therapeutic tool used by a child therapist.
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15 Art Therapy Activities for Teens
Verbal expression can sometimes be challenging for teenagers. Discover 15 art therapy activities for teens as part of their counseling.
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Research on Open-Ended Physical Games and Kids’ Attention and Social-Emotional Skills
Can open-ended games improve kids’ focus and social-emotional skills more than structured activities? A new study reveals surprising benefits.
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Disruptive Behavior Disorders in Children
Disruptive behavior disorders in children cause aggression, extreme rebellion, and hostility. Learn how to manage these challenging conditions.
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Research on How Parents’ Growth Mindsets Shape Their Children’s in Upper Elementary School
A study in Frontiers in Psychology shows how parents’ growth mindset influences their children’s beliefs about learning and improvement. Learn more here.
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10 Best Children's Books About Diversity
Discover the best children's books about diversity that celebrate culture, identity, and inclusion. These inspiring stories teach kids about acceptance, self-love, and the beauty of differences.
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How to Teach Gratitude to Kids
Learn helpful ways to teach gratitude to kids. Discover practical tips to encourage appreciation, positivity, and the attitude of gratitude.
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A List of Cognitive Distortions (and How to Overcome Them)
Negative thoughts can make us believe things that aren’t true. This list of cognitive distortions explains common thinking errors and how to challenge them.
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Research Shows That Household Chores Benefit Children’s Executive Function
Did you know that simple household chores can boost your child’s thinking skills? Research shows that certain tasks improve executive functioning.
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Toxic Stress in Children
Toxic stress in children can have a significant impact on their daily lives. Learn how to manage and treat it.
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Do Parents See It Clearly? Research on the Reality of Children’s School Engagement
Many parents believe their kids love school and learn a lot, but students report a different reality. Learn about the disengagement gap in this study.
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15 Printable Grief Worksheets and Handouts for Kids & Teens
Losing a loved one can make a person feel stuck and alone. Use our printable grief worksheets to help young people process their emotions.
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Teach Kids This Skill for Healthy Relationships
Learn how to teach kids this essential skill for healthy relationships. It encourages good communication, boundary setting, and conflict resolution.