Michael Vallejo, LCSW
Michael received a Master's Degree in Social Work from Portland State University in 2010. He is a licensed as a Clinical Social Worker in Colorado and Oregon. He values a non-judgmental and collaborative approach to therapy. Michael utilize a strengths-based, goal-oriented approach, which includes skill-building, and strategies from solution-focused therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and various dialectical behavior therapy skills.
Prior to starting his private practice in 2014, he worked in a residential treatment center for children and teens, at a shelter for at-risk youth, and as a child and family therapist in a community-based mental health agency. He specialize in working with boys with behavioral, emotional, and /or school difficulties. Michael's primary age of focus is 10-18 years old.
Specialties: Working with boys, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, Mood difficulties, Behavioral difficulties, and School related concerns.
Latest Articles by Michael Vallejo, LCSW
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10 Best Anger Management Toys for Kids & Teens
Anger can be overwhelming for children and teens. Learn how anger management toys can help them regulate their emotions.
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Research on the Effectiveness of Web-Based Self-Help Tools for Teen Depression
Using online mental health tools can help young people feel better in the short term. Here are the findings, plus tips for parents and caregivers.
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Research on Gestures and Childhood Communication Skills
Research shows that gestures support children in expressing feelings and remembering what they learn. Learn more here.
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10 Printable Self-Awareness Worksheets for Kids
Discover 10 printable self-awareness worksheets that teach kids to notice feelings, identify strengths, and manage emotions day to day.
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Best Pretend Play Toys for Kids of all Ages
Discover the best pretend play toys for every age. Spark creativity, build skills, and inspire endless storytelling from toddlers to tweens.
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How to Handle Jealousy in Children
Does your child seem to be easily jealous? Discover what causes jealousy in children and what techniques you can use to boost their self-esteem.
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What is Cognitive Flexibility, and How Can Kids Learn to Develop It?
Cognitive flexibility is what makes children adaptable, resilient, and open-minded. Learn why it matters and how to nurture it.
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10 Best Children’s Books About Feelings and Emotions
Explore 10 feelings books for kids that help them recognize emotions and develop healthy ways to express how they feel.
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Research on the Benefits of Exercise for Children and Teens with Autism
Research shows exercise supports social, cognitive, and physical skills in kids with autism. Explore the findings and ways to apply them at home.
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12 Fun Sharing Activities for Kids
Sharing activities for kids can teach your child to become more compassionate and empathetic. Learn how to incorporate them into everyday life.
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Research on Assertiveness Therapy to Reduce Bullying in Teens
A review found that assertiveness therapy helps both bullies and victims. Find out the full results of the research and learn ways to help your child or teen.
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10 Printable Gratitude Worksheets and Handouts for Kids
Teach kids gratitude with engaging worksheets that support reflection, mindfulness, and positive thinking.
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How to Help Kids Build Emotional Intelligence
Building emotional intelligence in children enables them to become self-reliant and manage themselves during challenging times. Here’s what it entails.
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Research on Outdoor and Arts-Based Activities for Teens
Teens can gain more confidence, social skills, and mindfulness through outdoor and creative experiences. Learn more from this research.
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Understanding the Levels of Autism Spectrum Disorder
Understanding the levels of autism can help determine the amount of support a person needs to succeed in life. Learn more about ASD in our article.
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Research on the Impact of Comparing Your Child to Others
A recent study reveals how comparing your child to “better” kids affects their confidence and how a positive outlook helps. Learn more here.
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10 Printable Growth Mindset Worksheets for Kids
Help your child build confidence, resilience, and a love of learning with these 10 growth mindset worksheets.
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12 Best Children's Books About Perseverance
Discover 12 inspiring children's books on perseverance that teach determination and the importance of never giving up in the face of challenges.
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Research on Communication Barriers Between Parents and Teens Related to Mental Health Support
In this research paper, learn how parents and teens can overcome barriers to talking about mental health and improve family communication.
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10 Books About Leadership for Kids I Personally Recommend
Discover 10 inspiring leadership books for kids that teach confidence, problem-solving, and how to lead with kindness at school, home, and beyond.
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Research on Yoga’s Benefits for Children’s Mental Health
This research review reveals how yoga helps reduce anxiety, boost focus, and promote calm in kids and teens. Keep reading to learn more.
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Flexible Thinking Activities for Kids of All Ages
Flexible thinking activities for kids can teach them to be adaptable, self-reliant, and more confident in themselves. Here’s what you can try!
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Borderline Personality Disorder vs. Bipolar: Understanding the Difference
BPD vs. bipolar disorder—what’s the difference? Learn how to distinguish between the disorders and how to get the right kind of help.
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Research on the Benefits of Gardening for Children with Eczema and Their Caregivers
A study examined how therapeutic gardening supports the well-being of caregivers and children with atopic dermatitis. Explore the findings here.
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Tiger Parenting: Is It Helping or Hurting?
Tiger parenting is a strict, authoritarian approach focusing on a child’s academic success. Learn how it can impact your child.
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Research on The Link Between Parenting and Separation Anxiety in Kindergarteners
This study involving 300 kindergarteners shows how parenting style can affect separation anxiety. Learn more here.
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ADD vs. ADHD
Confused between ADD vs. ADHD? Learn the differences in terminology, what ADD entails, and what characterizes ADHD today.
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Relational Aggression in Schools
Learn how to identify and address issues with relational aggression in schools. Get tips on how to help your child cope.
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Research on How Parental Mental Health Influences Children's Mental Health
Studies reveal that parents who manage their emotions help their children feel calmer and happier. Learn more here.
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Signs You Had Emotionally Abusive Parents (And How It Affects You Now)
Did you have emotionally abusive parents? Learn what the signs are and what you can do to start your healing journey.
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Research on the Impact of Bullying Prevention Programs on Middle School Students
Bullying affects children worldwide, but a school-based program helped students improve their knowledge and reduce bullying behaviors. Learn more here.
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How Much Sleep Do Kids Need? Age-Appropriate Bedtimes for Kids
Is your child getting enough sleep? Learn about why sleep is important for kids and how you can improve their sleep hygiene.
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Child Confessing Bad Thoughts? What It Means and How to Respond
Is your child confessing bad thoughts? Learn why children confess these worries and discover supportive ways to respond as a parent or caregiver.
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Research on How Trust Influences Children’s Honesty
Read our study on how showing trust in young children can promote honesty, plus tips for parents and caregivers.
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5 Free CBT Workbooks for Kids
Help children manage worries and big feelings with these free CBT workbooks for kids. These can be used by parents, teachers, or therapists.
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Research on Sports and Mental Health Programs for Teen Mental Health
Sports can boost teens’ mental health. Find out what works for boys and girls, and how parents can support them on and off the field.
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70 Mindfulness Activities for Kids to Help Stay Calm and Focused
Mindfulness activities for kids help improve focus, compassion, empathy, and well-being. Discover some engaging activities to try with your child.
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Rainbow Breathing for Kids: A Colorful Way to Practice Mindfulness
Rainbow breathing for kids is a fun, engaging, and colorful method for calming down and refocusing. Learn how to use it in stressful situations.
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Research on Building Strong Social Connections to Support Teen Mental Health
Research highlights that social connections protect teen mental health and reduce risky behaviors. Learn key findings here.
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Feelings Thermometer: A Simple Tool to Teach Emotional Awareness
A feelings thermometer is a visual tool that can improve a child’s emotional vocabulary and awareness. Learn how to use it for daily check-ins.
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Research on How Helping Can Hurt or Help Learning
A study shows that the kind of help children give matters. Find out when helping supports learning, and when it can hurt.
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Anger Thermometer: A Simple Tool for Understanding and Managing Anger
An anger thermometer provides a simple way to track and respond to feelings of frustration or disappointment. Learn how it works.
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Research on Neurofeedback Training for Kids with ADHD
Research shows neurofeedback boosts working memory and inhibitory control in kids with ADHD. Here’s what you need to know.
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Identifying Emotions (for Kids and Teens)
Identifying emotions is key for kids and teens. Use practical resources and tools to help young people understand their feelings more easily.
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Research on Study Breaks to Support Children’s Learning
Research shows that even a 5-minute break can help children focus and solve math problems more effectively. Learn more about the findings here.
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Helping Kids Build Executive Function Skills
Executive function skills for kids help them develop daily routines and succeed in school. Learn what you can do to help them develop these skills.
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Why Kids Have Emotional Outbursts — And How to Help Them Cope
Emotional outbursts can have a long-term negative impact on kids. Learn what causes them and what you can do to support your child.
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Research on Treating Childhood Anxiety with CBT
Study shows CBT calms overactive brain regions in anxious children. Read the full study to learn how these findings can inform treatment and support for kids.
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A Parent’s Guide to Virtual Reality Therapy for Children
Discover how virtual reality therapy can help children manage certain mental health conditions under the guidance of a licensed professional.
